With Valentine’s Day on the quickly-approaching horizon, I thought it would be a good time to address what people across the globe are contemplating – “What’s the best toy I should gift my partner?” And while you may see lots of magazines and sex toy stores and even other bloggers offering up their lists of […]
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We’ve made it – our final chapter for Learning The Ropes – figuring out our safewords! Previously we laid out a roadmap for negotiating a great scene. Safewords are a part of scene negotiation, but they felt to me like they deserved their own post because there’s a lot more to cover than “say uncle!”
Welcome back for another instalment of how on earth to find your way through discovering your kinks! To recap, we’ve talked about the basics of entering the kinky lifestyle, where you might fall on the great big spectrum of not-vanilla, and how to play safer. Last time we went over how to find and set
My blog took more than a small break through the first half, which may not have been super noticeable as my posting schedule has always been a bit erratic. At the end of last year I went to visit my family in the US with the intention of finishing up the small renovations I’d had
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While adding some links to older reviews into a recent post, I started skimming back through them to refresh my memory. As I did this, I came to realize that over the years as things have changed – biologically and mentally – my love or hate for a couple of my toys has changed as
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Alternately titled – What felt good this year when literally nothing felt good I’ve never done a “year end wrap up” style post before but this seemed like as good a time as any to start. I didn’t review a whole lot this year for a handful of reasons – I didn’t chase any review
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First of all, welcome home! A little bit of a foreword : I’ve identified as kinky since basically forever now. I’m certainly not the one-true-voice-of-kink but I do hope to offer a little useful insight based on my many many years here. I signed up on Fetlife probably the day I was legally allowed to