Alternately titled – What felt good this year when literally nothing felt good I’ve never done a “year end wrap up” style post before but this seemed like as good a time as any to start. I didn’t review a whole lot this year for a handful of reasons – I didn’t chase any review […]
2020 New Flings and Old Flames Read Post »
How do you love a body that refuses to love you back. That’s a question I’ve had for what feels like forever. To be clear – if you’re looking for an answer in this post, I don’t think you’re going to find it. This is more grumpy personal insight than how-to, unfortunately. If I do
How do I love a body that refuses to love me back? Read Post »
No I mean like…fucking packers. I’ve long been on the search for the perfect dildos. In my case, perfect means soft, squishy, pliable. Boring in shape and accommodating in size, I’m most pleased by something that closely mimics the feel of a real penis (stiff, funky shapes and large sizes are painful for me.) I’ve
For The Love Of Fucking Packers Read Post »
Dearly beloved peddlers of my favourite sexual wares – this one’s for you The World Wide Web is staring down its 30’s, Google is finally old enough to buy cigarettes, and Yelp is trying to figure out puberty. Things like affiliate marketing and product review blogs aren’t far behind – the Internet quite literally
Dear Companies – Addressing Privacy Concerns Amongst Sex Writers Read Post »
Squirting – it’s trending right now. It has been for a few years with everyone from Cosmopolitan to Buzzed News, The Frisky to Refinery29, Thoughtcatalog, Women’s Health Magazine, and Marie Claire for God’s sake debating and talking and polling and sharing funny little .gifs about the mystery of “female ejaculation” (their words, not mine) , having pulled the
Are You Asking The Right Questions About Squirting? Read Post »
Despite possessing it for twenty-some odd years and being aware of its existence for at least a decade, I still haven’t fully grasped all the nuances of my finicky G-spot. In fact I wouldn’t claim to have even really brushed the surface – I didn’t even really start masturbating with penetration of any kind on
Getting To Know My G-spot Read Post »
You’ll probably never see me write a complete review for a lubricant. Why not? I just don’t have a whole lot to say – it either works well for me or it doesn’t. On top of that, when I find a lube that I like, I buy the biggest bottle of it so that I
Choosing The Right Type Of Lube Read Post »
I wrote previously about my experience with one of the presentations offered at Toronto’s 2015 Playground Conference, and even though it was many many weeks ago now, I’m still working to process and put into action in my life much of what I took in that weekend. There were many talks and classes I adored, but one of