With Valentine’s Day on the quickly-approaching horizon, I thought it would be a good time to address what people across the globe are contemplating – “What’s the best toy I should gift my partner?” And while you may see lots of magazines and sex toy stores and even other bloggers offering up their lists of […]
So You Want To Buy Your Partner A Sex Toy Read Post »
We’ve made it – our final chapter for Learning The Ropes – figuring out our safewords! Previously we laid out a roadmap for negotiating a great scene. Safewords are a part of scene negotiation, but they felt to me like they deserved their own post because there’s a lot more to cover than “say uncle!”
Welcome back for another instalment of how on earth to find your way through discovering your kinks! To recap, we’ve talked about the basics of entering the kinky lifestyle, where you might fall on the great big spectrum of not-vanilla, and how to play safer. Last time we went over how to find and set
Curious about adding some booty action into your repertoire, but nervous about the discomfort? There doesn’t have to be any! Let’s look at ways to make anal play more comfortable
A Better Way To Backdoor Play Read Post »
My blog took more than a small break through the first half, which may not have been super noticeable as my posting schedule has always been a bit erratic. At the end of last year I went to visit my family in the US with the intention of finishing up the small renovations I’d had
2022 – New Flings and Old Flames Read Post »
While adding some links to older reviews into a recent post, I started skimming back through them to refresh my memory. As I did this, I came to realize that over the years as things have changed – biologically and mentally – my love or hate for a couple of my toys has changed as
Revisiting Reviews Read Post »
Whenever I mention a toy by name around here and it’s something I’ve reviewed, I try to link to that review so my readers can get all the info I’m trying to relay. Recently while adding links into a new post I found myself reading up on some of those old reviews and realizing my
The Passage Of Time On The Mind, Body, and Orgasm Read Post »
I’ve kept wish lists for myself in the past just to keep an eye on things I thought were interesting or to occasionally make special requests from the companies I do reviews for, but I haven’t updated any of them in a very long time. When stores have catalogs in the thousands and there’s new
What Could A Sex Toy Reviewer Wish For? – 2022 Read Post »
Last year was the first time I wrote any sort of year-end-recap and I did it mostly because of how Covid had changed so much, not only on my blog (was a bit of a slow year) but also life in general. We’re still not out of Covid (despite how half the world seems to
2021 – New Flings and Old Flames Read Post »
Hi there! Sorry it’s been a while since our last chat, I was taking a little break. Previously we covered some safety aspects that are attached to acting out your kinks, and dug a little bit into what goes into giving and obtaining proper consent to performing these kinks with others. This time I want
… A lot of the time, it’s not safe for women to speak up and tell the person they are having sex with “your dick is trash.”…
Unpopular Opinion – Fake All The Orgasms You Have To Read Post »
Alright, so we’ve discovered that we might not be very vanilla afterall, and we’ve touched on (but certainly not exhausted) the vast array of roles and labels we might find ourselves acting and wearing, and we’re working to handle our newbie frenzy so we don’t come off as rambunctious puppies with no sense about us….