2023

Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Safewords

We’ve made it – our final chapter for Learning The Ropes – figuring out our safewords! Previously we laid out a roadmap for negotiating a great scene. Safewords are a part of scene negotiation, but they felt to me like they deserved their own post because there’s a lot more to cover than “say uncle!”

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Toy Review – The California Dreaming So. Cal Sunshine Teasing Tickler Rabbit Vibe by California Exotics

I’m calling it the So. Cal Sunshine because – as per usual – these names are absurd! I am forever convinced that whoever picks names for sex toys really wishes they’d become a novelist, or part of an emo pop-punk band that uses entire sentences for song titles. This review could honestly have been only

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Toy Review – The Playboy Palm Double-Ended Tapping Vibrator by Evolved Novelties

I’m becoming more and more interested in clitoral toys that don’t (just) vibrate, and I’m excited to get my hands on them as companies begin to explore new movement possibilities. “Tapping” seems to be catching on finally and I’m rather a fan. My first and only other tapping toy is the Lovense Osci, whose insertable

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The Womanizer Wave Giveaway!

Welcome! Let’s win something! It’s been a while since I’ve had something free up for grabs so for the month of August I am running a giveaway! One lucky winner will have the chance to upgrade their self-care shower sessions with the new Wave hand-held shower head, just released from trusted sex toy industry giants

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Help! I’m Kinky? – A mini-series of intros into The Lifestyle – Volume 2 : Learning The Ropes – Elements Of The Scene

Welcome back for another instalment of how on earth to find your way through discovering your kinks! To recap, we’ve talked about the basics of entering the kinky lifestyle, where you might fall on the great big spectrum of not-vanilla, and how to play safer. Last time we went over how to find and set

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Toy Review – The Wave by Womanizer

It’s rare that a major “vanilla” brand partners up with folks who make sex toys, but if anyone was going to snag some mainstream mingling it would be pleasure industry giant Womanizer. Having already spearheaded the entire genre of air-pulse toys, they’ve decided the next hurdle is the household – bathrooms, specifically. Hansgrohe are the

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Sex Toy Clean-Out Sale

Below are a list of sex toys that I am selling. Please read all details on the items before contacting. If you want to purchase something you can send me an email at info@sexbloggess.com The details : Butt Stuff : b-Vibe Snug Plug 2 in black with carrying case – $25 Fun Factory BBall Uno

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Toy Review – The OG by Womanizer

Pretty much every other review for this toy has started off by pointing out the confusing naming around it – I can’t help it, I’m going to follow suit. “OG” is commonly understood to stand for the “original” or “original gangster”, and while Womanizer as an entire brand certainly is the OG in air-pulse technology,

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